Question
Vega,
Looking over your question, it seems you already know your answer. You outlined some significant consequences from using Hi5: "My friend gets very irritable, fights over nothing, seems to misunderstand & twist around anything I say to something negative yet other times he is in his own world like in a trance... He is also loosing weight, bad tossing & turning at night."
How to help? The first step is to connect your friend to a counselor.
If your friend came up to you and thought his roof had suffered hurricane damage, you wouldn't hop up there and poke around yourself (other than a cursory look or two). And you certainly wouldn't replace the roof to help him out. You would hire a professional with the experience and the tools to get the job done right.
That's the same thing you need to do with his Hi5 use. Connect him with a counselor who has the experience and the tools to get the job done right.
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Scott Graham
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