Zelik Mintz
LCSW, LP
Clinical Social Worker/Therapist
New York City, USA
Answers questions in Addiction Treatment · Addictions · Alcohol Rehab
About Zelik Mintz
EDUCATION:
Certificate in Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy, 2003
Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy Study Center, N.Y. N.Y.
Masters of Social Work, 1995
New York University, New York, N.Y.
Bachelor of Arts (Sociology), 1971
City University of New York, New York, N.Y.
CERTIFICATION / LICENSES:
Licensed Clinical Social Worker (L.C.S.W.)
Licensed Psychoanalyst (L.P.)
EMPLOYMENT:
Psychotherapist and Psychoanalyst
Private Practice
September, 1995 â Present
Treat a diverse population. Individuals and couples. Specialize in gay issues; HIV/AIDS; sexual addiction; substance abuse and other addictions; bereavement; parenting; chronic illness.
Social Worker, Supportive Care Program
St. Vincent’s Catholic Medical Center, New York, N.Y.
June, 1995 â April, 2010
Social worker for individuals with life threatening illnesses, primarily cancer and AIDS. Provided ongoing, long term and brief treatment and counseling for individuals, couples, families and significant others in and outside of their homes. Facilitated support groups. Provided crisis intervention and entitlement coordination. Offered bereavement and caregiver counseling. Created psychosocial assessments. As an adjunct to New York University, functioned as a field supervisor for MSW students. Supervised, trained, and provided orientation for new social work staff. Part of a multidisciplinary team of nurses and psychiatrists and worked closely with individual medical and other health providers. Worked as an advocate and liaison with outside agencies.
Social Worker / Case Manager, AIDS Center
St. Vincent’s Catholic Medical Center, New York, N.Y.
July, 1990 â June, 1995
Social worker / case manager for HIV/AIDS adult patients in the Infectious Disease Clinic and for HIV/AIDS infected children in the Pediatric/Family Infectious Disease Clinic. Provided ongoing individual, couple and family treatment and counseling, brief treatment, crisis and family intervention, entitlement coordination, substance abuse counseling, HIV counseling, AIDS education, and referrals to community resources. Created and implemented the intake system for the Infectious Disease Clinic. Conducted intake interviewing and created psychosocial assessments. Was part of a multidisciplinary team of medical providers, nurses, substance abuse counselors and psychiatrists.
Manager
Food Restaurant, New York, N.Y.
September, 1980 â July, 1989
Coordinated employee schedules and supervised restaurant operations.
Actor
September, 1980 â June, 1986
New York, N.Y.
Appeared in feature films and on stage in Equity showcase productions and community theater. Member of Screen Actorsâ Guild (SAG) and Actorsâ Equity.
Owner / Worker
Moosewood Restaurant, Ithaca, N.Y.
July, 1974 â July, 1979
Member of a collective that owned and operated a health food restaurant.
VOLUNTEER:
Crisis Intervention Worker
Gay Men’s Health Crisis (GMHC), New York, N.Y.
February, 1984 â June, 1986
Served as a counselor and coordinator for PWA (People with AIDS) clients. Provided emotional support for clients through different stages of HIV illness. Acted as liaison between clients and GMHC, and between clients and their families and support systems in matters concerning legal, financial, social service and recreational affairs. Attended GMHC team meetings and reported on clientsâ progress, exchanged information and discussed issues of common concern.
References, work evaluations, and letters of appreciation available upon request.
What I do
Psychotherapy lays the emotional groundwork that leads to a more happy and satisfying life.
Many people think of psychotherapy, especially some kinds of traditional psychotherapy, as one-sided: the person in therapy talks and the therapist listens. But effective psychotherapy â therapy that heals â works because of the unique relationship that develops between the therapist and the person in therapy.
I provide an environment that, because it is safe and non-judgmental, allows the person in therapy to open up in new and often unexpected ways and to experience and express his or her deepest thoughts and feelings.
I use more than one therapeutic discipline, but my approach is ultimately tailored to the needs of the person I am working with. I help people become more emotionally self aware so that they can experience greater self-esteem and satisfaction in life, better deal with depression, and cope with the anxiety that so often interferes with their sense of well-being.
My story
EDUCATION:
Certificate in Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy, 2003
Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy Study Center, N.Y. N.Y.
Masters of Social Work, 1995
New York University, New York, N.Y.
Bachelor of Arts (Sociology), 1971
City University of New York, New York, N.Y.
CERTIFICATION / LICENSES:
Licensed Clinical Social Worker (L.C.S.W.)
Licensed Psychoanalyst (L.P.)
EMPLOYMENT:
Psychotherapist and Psychoanalyst
Private Practice
September, 1995 â Present
Treat a diverse population. Individuals and couples. Specialize in gay issues; HIV/AIDS; sexual addiction; substance abuse and other addictions; bereavement; parenting; chronic illness.
Social Worker, Supportive Care Program
St. Vincent’s Catholic Medical Center, New York, N.Y.
June, 1995 â April, 2010
Social worker for individuals with life threatening illnesses, primarily cancer and AIDS. Provided ongoing, long term and brief treatment and counseling for individuals, couples, families and significant others in and outside of their homes. Facilitated support groups. Provided crisis intervention and entitlement coordination. Offered bereavement and caregiver counseling. Created psychosocial assessments. As an adjunct to New York University, functioned as a field supervisor for MSW students. Supervised, trained, and provided orientation for new social work staff. Part of a multidisciplinary team of nurses and psychiatrists and worked closely with individual medical and other health providers. Worked as an advocate and liaison with outside agencies.
Social Worker / Case Manager, AIDS Center
St. Vincent’s Catholic Medical Center, New York, N.Y.
July, 1990 â June, 1995
Social worker / case manager for HIV/AIDS adult patients in the Infectious Disease Clinic and for HIV/AIDS infected children in the Pediatric/Family Infectious Disease Clinic. Provided ongoing individual, couple and family treatment and counseling, brief treatment, crisis and family intervention, entitlement coordination, substance abuse counseling, HIV counseling, AIDS education, and referrals to community resources. Created and implemented the intake system for the Infectious Disease Clinic. Conducted intake interviewing and created psychosocial assessments. Was part of a multidisciplinary team of medical providers, nurses, substance abuse counselors and psychiatrists.
Manager
Food Restaurant, New York, N.Y.
September, 1980 â July, 1989
Coordinated employee schedules and supervised restaurant operations.
Actor
September, 1980 â June, 1986
New York, N.Y.
Appeared in feature films and on stage in Equity showcase productions and community theater. Member of Screen Actorsâ Guild (SAG) and Actorsâ Equity.
Owner / Worker
Moosewood Restaurant, Ithaca, N.Y.
July, 1974 â July, 1979
Member of a collective that owned and operated a health food restaurant.
VOLUNTEER:
Crisis Intervention Worker
Gay Men’s Health Crisis (GMHC), New York, N.Y.
February, 1984 â June, 1986
Served as a counselor and coordinator for PWA (People with AIDS) clients. Provided emotional support for clients through different stages of HIV illness. Acted as liaison between clients and GMHC, and between clients and their families and support systems in matters concerning legal, financial, social service and recreational affairs. Attended GMHC team meetings and reported on clientsâ progress, exchanged information and discussed issues of common concern.
References, work evaluations, and letters of appreciation available upon request.
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Answered Questions(31)
Cocaine addiction
I am new to cocaine I only tried for the first time 2 weeks ago. It was unbelievable. Since then already I have already been snorting it 2 or 3 times a day. I am already needing bigger amounts to get as high. This feels so good but already I am scared about addiction. Can it happen this fast in only a couple of weeks?
Read answer →Marijuana Rehab
I am a long time marijuana smoker. 14 years to be exact. My live revolved around getting high with friends and just getting by at work. I realized eventually that I was sleepwalking through my life and that the way I thought of weed as a fun and social activity was mostly now a not very fun thing I needed to do to feel like myself (it was still sometimes fun but not most of the time) and rarely a social thing. It had more become a thing that kept me from socializing with other people since as I aged into my 30s it became less Ok to be high in front of more and more people. It became something that had kept me from social events so I could stay home and play video games by myself or with one other friend. A few months ago I decided to quit but I failed. Fast forward a few months and a few more failed attempts and I realize that stopping is much harder than I ever thought it would be. I don’t really have any withdrawal but after 2 days I just crave it so strong and I can’t get it out of my head. I have never made it past 4 days. If I went away for 1 week of rehab would that be enough to get past the cravings? I feel ridiculous for even asking about rehab for marijuana but I do not know what to do.
Read answer →Family member suspect of using
I have a family member that is addicted to IV meth. She has decided to try and sober up. She has agreed to stay with me for a week. She was in jail for the last 3 weeks. And arrived a few days ago her speech is kind of slurred at times and every once in a while she kind of seems a little off balance. When I visited her in jail her speech wasn't slurred she seemed to speak more clearly. I think she might be on something. Because she is only trying this for a week or so I assume whatever it could be will run out. I don't want to scare her off so I haven't asked her. Should I ask her? What should I do.
Read answer →Children and internet/gaming addiction
At what age can a child become addicted to the internet and to playing games online and on the ipad? Of course all children like playing games but my son seems obsessive about it and if he spends too much time playing he gets really behaviorally out of control, but if you pull him away before he has had ‘enough’ he gets furious. He is 10. I am an ex cocaine addict and I see the same obsessive and compulsive glint in his eye as I used to have about drugs and alcohol. Is he more likely to have an internet addiction because of my past cocaine addiction? I am divorced and my wife does not agree that this is a serious issue so it is hard to set consistent limits on his gaming time. She lets him play as long as his homework is done and this can mean 4 or 5 or even 6 hours of play time a day, not counting the hours he sneaks in his room at night I am sure (I have caught him doing this on many times). Can he be actually addicted addicted and if he is how can I get my wife to see the forest for the trees? What is the best next step for us?
Read answer →Online life replacing real life
I suck at the real world but I have a rich and varied online life with friends and foes and communities and sexual fulfillment. Online I can be whoever I want to be and people like and respect me but in the real world because of the way I look and dress people will not give me the time of day. I am 31 and I have been a nerd or loser for my whole life but online I fit in and it feels good. With technological advancements and VR I believe that within 5 years probably I won’t have to leave my virtual body for anything other than the basic physical requirements to keeping my real-self alive. Is there anything wrong with living this way? My parents are pressuring me to get therapy but I think it is ridiculous. Do you think it is necessary for me to get therapy or to presume that there is something wrong with me if the way I chose – consciously chose – to live my life harms no one else and brings me satisfaction? Why does everyone want me to be miserable in real life when I have found a life I enjoy online?
Read answer →Teenage Porn Addiction
How do you know if you have a porn addiction? I only look at porn before bed so it is not like I am doing it all of the time but I can’t sleep unless I do it. If I try I just toss and turn and it calls to me until I give in and go to the computer. When I am surfing I can lose track of time and sometimes I will spend 2 or 3 hours in a session. This makes it quite hard to get up in the morning and after I am done when it is really late I always feel really guilty and ashamed at my loss of control over myself. I do not have a girlfriend if that is not obvious already. I have not missed a night of this in more than two years. I am 17 now. I have not discussed this with anyone because it is pretty embarrassing.
Read answer →Self Medicating to Feel OK
Childhood neglect and sexual abuse led me to very early promiscuity at 12 years old and marijuana and then crack cocaine addiction and alcoholism. In and out of rehab and I was out on the streets by 15 and raped twice before I was 18. Sex has been like a weapon against me for my while life so its messed up that I am a sex addict now. The thing is the only times I don’t feel pain are when I am planning and fanaticizing and during sex but then I feel worse afterward than ever. Sex is like my emotional medicine but if I don’t use sex then I start to crave alcohol very strongly and drinking takes me to a very bad place that I know I won’t survive again. So what I want to know. Honestly. Is will I ever not need something to feel OK?
Read answer →HIV transmission sharing a smoke
Can I get HIV if I shared a pipe with some guy that had bleeding lips. It was really dark in the park and my buddy saw this guy that he knew that is practically a homeless dude and the guy asked if he could have a few tokes and since I was baked I did not even think to worry about sharing a little herb. Then we walked into the street light and I saw this guys lips were bleeding from being so dry and cracked. I am freaked out and I can’t stop thinking about this. Should I get tested or am I being paranoid?
Read answer →Marijuana recovery and sensitivity to light
I stopped smoking weed about 5 weeks ago and now I am fine except for one lingering problem that I have with my eyesight. My eyes are not able to focus and adjust to light changes very well and when I go from a dark room to sunlight I am almost blinded for a second. I think my pupils are not responding as quickly as they should. I s there anything I can do to make this go away faster?
Read answer →Marijuana and treatment
Out of all of the users of marijuana why don't more people seek treatment if they believe they're addicted?
Read answer →Resource for children and adults dealing with alcoholism
Dear Friend, I am a psychotherapist in South Jersey. Two years ago one of my clients in recovery struggled with how to explain alcoholism to his young daughter. He was concerned that she would hear from neighbors and family members that Daddy was a "drunk". After an unsuccessful search for the perfect children's book to help him and his daughter he asked me to write one. "Daddy's Disease" is the result. “Tommy doesn’t know why his father doesn’t show up for dinners, or soccer games or why he acts funny sometimes. Tommy thinks it’s because his father doesn’t want to be with him, that he hasn’t been the best boy he can be, that he should try harder. But, Mommy tells Tommy that Daddy has a disease called “alcoholism”. She helps Tommy, and his faithful dog Murphy, understand what this disease is and how it affects Daddy, and the whole family. She teaches Tommy that he is not responsible for Daddy’s behavior and that gives Tommy the peace he needs to foster a healthy childhood.” In an easily understood, beautifully illustrated style, "Daddy's Disease" helps families to navigate the difficult waters of alcoholism. It is my hope that you will consider making this information available for the many children and adults who have been struggling with this devastating disease. Please feel free to contact me at 856-296-3775 with any questions. I thank you for your time and consideration and for all the good work you do. Best, Carolyn Hannan Bell - www.alcoholismhurtskids.com
Read answer →Can't look forward to getting high
Quit smoking pot after 12 years. By the end I hated it 95% of the time and it made me feel terrible. I should feel so happy and great that I am 35 days without a smoke and most of me is pretty pumped about getting this far but I can’t get over the disappointment of not having a joint to look forward to after doing something hard or difficult. What am I supposed to do to make this better? I am trying to think of things in a one day at a time outlook because the idea of never having that thing to look forward to is really upsetting and heavy…sort of depressing. I know in my brain that it is not worth destroying 23 and half hours a day just to have that one good half an hour but my gut and emotions just feel like they feel.
Read answer →Video game addiction
I feel pretty stupid to be in this position but I feel like I am addicted to video games and I am failing almost every subject at college because I keep blowing off classes to play. Sometimes I even lose track of time and even though I mean to go to class I miss it. Or I play so late that I don’t have time to do essays or reading. I don’t mean to but I just get sucked in and the hours roll by. I know I should just stop but I feel like I can’t. My parents are worked so hard to pay for my school and if I tell them I am failing school to play video games they’ll go ballistic. I want to stop but I can’t tell anyone. How to stop on my own?
Read answer →Failing at recovery
I am a binge drinker and alcoholic. I am unique because I do not have trouble maintaining sobriety for long stretches of time but then sometimes out of the blue I get whammed with feelings that I cannot resist and this leads to me drinking that might last for a few days or it might last for a few weeks or even months and then I dry out and I can stay dry for months or even years. I have been repeating this pattern for 30 years. I have been to rehab, AA, hospitalized 3 times, medical detox…the works. I am so tired of this. My life feels so hopeless and if I ever think about trying to do something bigger I realize that I will just screw it up for sure when I have my next binge so there is no point in even trying so I just keep working my deadend job and living by myself in a cheap room I rent.
Read answer →Hepatitis C
I just found out that a guy I used to do cocaine with a lot has hepatitis C and he is in really bad shape. We shared coke straws together many times. He shot up and I never did though. I have not done cocaine with him in more than 2 years and I have no symptoms. How likely is it to get infected just by sharing straws?
Read answer →Pain Meds Online
Can I go to jail if I order prescription drugs from online pharmacies? If I get an online consult from a doctor at the pharmacy does this count as OK then? I have never done anything like this but I am getting insufficient pain control from my doctor (who is an A-Hole and looks at me like I am a junky when I ask him for medication to control my unbearable pain) and he says he wants to start giving me less when my pain is worse than ever.
Read answer →Staying clean after time in a Buddhist rehab retreat
There is this non profit Buddhist meditation and mindfulness based rehab in Thailand where it only costs like 20$ a day and you can stay for as long as you like in this community of sustainable agriculture and meditation and overnight silence. It’s all in the mountains and jungles and it looks incredibly peaceful. I am a cocaine and alcohol addict. I can clean up for a while but I can’t stay clean. This program that I am talking about looks really god and I can actually afford it. I am thinking about dropping out of the world for a few months to live like a monk. My worry is that even if I can stay clean for 3 months in a meditation retreat in the jungle does this make it very likely that I will be able to stay clean once I am back here in Chicago?
Read answer →Multiple Pain Medication Prescriptions
Do doctors in New York have a record of what medicines were prescribed to what person and when they were prescribed? I am asking because I saw a lot of different prescriptions for pain killer medicines at my sister’s house from different doctors. Is this actually the case in New York State? Do you think I should go behind her back and give her main doctor a list of all the medications she is taking? Would he be able to use that information or is that a breach of doctor and patient confidentiality?
Read answer →Wet House?
Are you familiar with the idea of a wet house? Where alcoholics that are never going to quit get a reasonable daily dose of alcohol so they don’t have to live on the street and they don’t take too much and they get some basic services? Is it wrong to give up on people like this or is it just realistic? I am asking because my brother is a severe long time alcoholic and my brothers want to set him up with this basic arrangement in a guest cottage. He is homeless now. I am resistant to the idea but I am not sure if I should be or not. He is 43 and he has been an alcoholic for 20 years. He is very brain damaged and he has liver damage. The wet house is a death sentence but what he is doing right now is going to get him killed even faster…so what is the right answer?
Read answer →History of Addiction/Alcoholism Counselor
How important is it to find an addictions counselor that has a history of personal addiction? Does this make that person more able to understand what I am going through? Can a person who has not experienced addiction or alcoholism really understand just by reading about and talking to other people about what it is like? Wouldn’t it be like trying to explain the color green to a blind person?
Read answer →MDMA and Hallucinating
If you take a lot of MDMA will you start hallucinating like feeling like you have bugs under your skin and these hallucinations will last way after you stop being high? If this happens does it mean that the MDMA is actually cut with something more dangerous or can this happen if you take enough MDMA in a row, like for a few days in a row. If this happens is it dangerous or do you just have to wait and it will go away?
Read answer →Meth Addiction and Psychotic Episodes
How long will psychotic episodes last after a person stop using meth if that person has been using for 6 years. She is 11 days clean and she is still very delusional. Her sister says this happened before and she was OK eventually. Is this within the realm of normal or does she need psychiatric help? She doesn’t want to go and they don’t really have the money to pay for anything so this is why we have been watching her hallucinate for almost 2 weeks now.
Read answer →Addiction is Psychological and Physiological
Is it a good idea to do a juice cleanse or detox fast as a part of early recovery from coke and meth. I feel like I have put so much chemicals in my body for the past 2 years I just want to clean my body out as fast as I can. Will I stop being addicted one all the drugs are physically out of my body and fat cells?
Read answer →Recovery from meth addiction is an ongoing process
I have a meth addiction. I am thinking about getting ready to stop. I have tried before but I am really serious this time. I want to know how many days does it take until the worst is over? If I can make it for a week will It get easier?
Read answer →Tapering down before rehab
If I try to taper down for a couple of weeks before going to rehab is that going to make it easier to quit once and for all. I am addicted to cocaine and weed and alcohol. Part of me wants to just hit it hard for one last good time before I go in but the part that doesn’t want to lose his family is trying to fight with that more irresponsible part.
Read answer →Infidelity and Addiction
My sister just got out of rehab for her drinking 6 weeks ago and for the first time in years I feel like she is really going to make it this time. Unfortunately, I just found out today that her bastard husband cheated on her more than once while she was away getting treatment. I am absolutely sure that my information is true. Now what do I do? I can’t stand seeing him in her house knowing what he did to her but I am worried that if I tell her now she is going to get so angry and upset that she is going to start drinking again. How long should I wait before I tell her what I know? It feels so disloyal to not tell her right away but I just don’t think she is ready to get this kind of news yet.
Read answer →Get to a rehab program before you hit rock bottom and have to.
When I’m drunk and high, like I am now, I am totally sure that I want to quit and I need to quit. My life is messed up and I am on a train wreck binge for years. I won’t get into the usual sad sack story but my life sucks and it is my drinking that causes my 9 and half out of ten problems. I have even called some treatment centers up at night and most of the time they want me to call back when I am sober in the morning. By then I may have forgotten about calling or I can’t face talking to anyone or I just get busy with dealing with my hung over and trying to make it through the day. Can you tell me how to make my wishes to get help last and translate into actually doing something in the day.
Read answer →Luxury Rehab
Is there any disadvantage to going to rehab on a tropical island or beach spa type place. We are picking a place for my sister and the costs are outrageous. Beyond this, many of the places seem to be selling themselves more like vacation resorts than places of treatment. I don’t want to be the Grinch of the family bit it seems to me that she has lacked responsibility her whole life and everyone has always just picked up the pieces for her so she never had to learn to do it herself. Now she’s really messing up so she’s getting sent to rehab, but instead of getting sent somewhere serious, we are all looking over places with massages and private chefs. Isn’t there an advantage to going to a place that isn’t like a vacation? It seems to me she should go to the Salvation Army or someplace similar, so at least she can start to face the consequences of what she has become. Am I correct? Is there something I am missing?
Read answer →Modafinil Addiction
I am using modafinil because I find it really helps me stay focused at work. I can keep my head down and get twice as much done…and I actually even sort of enjoy what would be tedious otherwise. But I am addicted to it and if I don’t take it I feel like crap. Should I be very worried about it? Is there any reason I can’t just be addicted on this forever without really having any problems. Oh yeah. I don’t have ADD or any reason to be using this. I am lucky to have a friendly doctor who’s happy to fill with a wink and a nod.
Read answer →Iboga
I was just wondering if you knew about iboga? I am also wondering if you think that it is worth trying, even if someone has to go to Canada to try it. As I understand there is a place in BC that does it legally. We are in Portland so it is reasonable. My brother is talking about getting some help finally and I am researching his options for the family. It seems to me that if it works it is better than going on methadone or Suboxone for a long time. From what I understand, heroin addicts doing the traditional 12 steps rehabs route don’t have a very impressive recovery rate. He is 24 and as far as I know he is in good health. He has been into drugs and drinking since he was 15. He just went off the deep end and he has never come back. He says he is ready to get some help and he mentioned the iboga as something he believed would work for him. I guess he knows someone who had done it, although that person was still using heroin.
Read answer →Support and Rehab
I have an employee that has worked for me for a number of years. I like and respect him and I watched with sadness as his drinking got out of control and I urged him to get the treatment he eventually did accept. He is now in a rehab program and he wants me to participate in a joint therapy group session with him. He is not married and has no close family. I want to help but I am uncomfortable. Is this customary, to ask an employer to such a therapy group. We are not friends but I care a great deal for him. I think he wants me to help him in his ongoing journey. Are there any legal issues I need to be concerned about if I get involved as his employer and also as a person that is helping him stay sober. Should I attend? I think I would like to but it seems very strange to me.
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