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Impulse Control Disorders

A Directive Life Coach, Counselor or Therapist

Answered by Kent Kinzley, M.A., MFC-29589

Question

I have an overspending problem. I have worked with a credit counselor in the past to try to get a handle on my debts but I do not seem very capable of reigning in my spending habits. I guess since I can’t control myself that I have some sort of problem. What kind of therapist (or life coach?) should I try to work with to try to get my spending habits under control?

Find a counselor, therapist or life coach that is directive vs. a non-directive psychotherapist. It's important to interview and find one who will track with your thinking and feeling processes around spending and having those things you purchase (Cognitive Behavior approaches are helpful), help you set up a means of tracking your expenditures, hold you accountable for your spending, and recognize and validate your successes.

Good luck!

About the Expert

Kent Kinzley

M.A., MFC-29589

Pasadena, United States of America

Specialties

Anger Management, Child or Adolescent Issues, Divorce, Compulsive Disorders, OCD, Spirituality, Other, Domestic Abuse or Domestic Violence, Anxiety or Fears, ADHD, Finding Your Purpose in Life, Parenting, Thinking Disorders, Sex Therapy, Addiction or Substance Abuse, Mood Disorders, Chronic Pain or Illness, Elderly Persons Disorders, Loss or Grief, Infertility or Adoption, Life Coaching, Autism, Trauma and PTSD, Personality Disorders, Impulse Control Disorders, Relationship Issues, Eating Disorders, Depression

License

my_license #MFC-29589