Question: Does psychological health (depression) affect a man’s ability to get a woman pregnant?

Arlinda Lindsay Says...:

Hello Anonymous,

Depression and antidepressants can affect a man's sexual arousal and performance. Stress can lower sperm count. Therefore, finding healthy ways of coping with stress would be helpful. Exercising, meditation, journaling, and talking things out are a few ways of coping with stress and depression.  Often, men hold in their feelings, emotions, and do not deal with underlying issues that are causing stress or depression.   I would suggest visiting a  physician to rule out any of medical condition that could lower sperm count or lower arousal. As well as talking to a therapist if needed.  I hope this helps.

 Arlinda
 
 

Question: My wife has postpartum depression. Our daughter is 1 month old. My wife had arranged for a 1 year maternity leave but she is now talking about going back after 4 months. She feels like she needs to get back to work for her mental health. I am worried that our daughter will be harmed irreversibly unless my wife can work through this and bond with her without running away. Can you comment?

Arlinda Lindsay Says...:

For some women, returning to work aggravates the postpartum depression because of the added
stress of going to work and achieving  work/life balance with the responsibilities of
taking care of a baby.  Anxiety may
increase as well as sadness, and guilt. 
However, returning to work may aid in recovery because of returning to a
structured environment with co-workers, adult interaction, and positive
challenges to which she is accustomed.The outcome varies for each individual. 

Women can still bond with their children while working. If she returns to work or not I would suggest that your wife receive therapy
to help with cope with symptoms, cope with her feelings, solve problems, and
help adjust with the many changes in her life. She should talk to her doctor or psychiatrist to
discuss the possibility of taking antidepressants or hormone therapy.