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FN:Dr. Shirley Herscovitch Schaye
N:Schaye;Shirley;Herscovitch ;;
NOTE:It's better than the alternative --- In all seriousness though\, if o
ne finds that they think life is not worth living they should seriously th
ink about getting help from a therapist so that they could enjoy their liv
es.
NOTE:Help resolve human conflicts wherever they exist — in the work forc
e in schools\, in families\, between couples and in marriages (including d
ivorce mediation).I also work as a consultant to schools. I deal with many
different issues such as: bullying\, learning disabilities and ADD/ADHD (
I work with adults in this area as well).
Because of my post do
ctoral training in psychodynamic psychotherapy and years of experience\, I
specialize in getting to the root of conflicts which enables me to work w
ith any person involved in human activity regardless of the setting — e.
g.\, business\, individual\, family\, marital\, couple — Adult\,child\,
adolescent — to identify the problem issues and help to resolve them.
I am a psychoanalyst ( which means that in addition to a Ph
D in psychology I have another 10 plus years of training. There is a conce
pt that as a psychoanalyst\, I need to deal with on a daily basis. All of
us — you\, me\, your friends\, everybody repeats their past. We internal
ize what went on when we are young and then merely repeat symbolically\, i
f not literally what happened when we were growing up. If it was a good pa
st — then no problem\, we are repeating a good past. However\, when the
past was not good we repeat that too. We do not have the capacity to not r
epeat the past. So\, one might ask\, what should I do? None of us is capab
le of changing how our past influences the present. One needs someone who
has the in-depth training to help them change their past so that they don
’t keep repeating it. All of us try to change the trauma we have experie
nced as children but low and behold\, we merely repeat the past over and o
ver with the hope of changing things but nothing ever changes. Only psycho
dynamically oriented treatment can help someone change the past.
NOTE:As mentioned below in My Story\, I do psychotherapy with adults\, chi
ldren and adolescents. I also consult with businesses and schools. I super
vise psychotherapy students and teach a Continuous Case Seminar on how to
do psychotherapy.
In addition\, I am on two Boards --- my alma mater
--- McGill University and on the Board of the Contemporary Freudian Societ
y.
ORG:Dr. Shirley Schaye
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TITLE:Licensed Psychoanalyst\, PhD F.I.P.A.
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