Melissa A. Borlie
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- Alcoholism
- Depression
- Recovery
- Trauma Therapy
Office
- Contact:
- 918-850-2903
Treatment Offered
- Therapy Orientation:
- Solution Focused Brief Therapy (SFBT), Mindfulness-based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT), Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
- Age Focus:
- Seniors, Teenagers, Adults
- Specialities:
- Dissociative Disorders, Anger Management, Personality Disorders, Addiction or Substance Abuse, Mood Disorders, Trauma and PTSD, Domestic Abuse or Domestic Violence, Anxiety or Fears, Relationship Issues, Women, Loss or Grief, Thinking Disorders, Depression, Finding Your Purpose in Life
- Treatment Modality:
- Couples, Individuals, Families, Groups
- Ethnicity:
- Any Ethnicity
- Sexual Orientation:
- Any Orientation
- Religious Beliefs:
- Any Religion
- Life Is Worth Living Because...
- I have always believed that every person has the ability to change and I try to be the spark that initiates that change.
- About My Work
- I counsel with adults, teens, couples, and families regarding life problems such as: anger/stress management; addictions; cheating; grief and loss; depression and suicide prevention; anxiety and fears; and self-esteem building and empowerment.
- My Story
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I helped families rebuild their lives, after trauma and misfortune, while working for the State of Oklahoma for 20 years. In 2006, I returned to college earning a Master of Human Relations degree (specialty in Counseling) from the University of Oklahoma. I still help individuals, couples, and families rebuild their lives--it's just a different role. My perspective of therapy is that my client and I form a team from which we work together to achieve the goals established by the client.
I approach substance abuse from a 12-Step perspective while acknowledging there are many paths to sobriety. Every person must find what works best for them. I always encourage participation in a 12-Step program for the support and encouragement it offers, but will meet my client wherever they are in the recovery process.
Qualification
| Years in Practice: | 5 Years |
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| Graduated from: | University of Oklahoma |
| Year Graduated: | 2006 |
| Licensed?: | Yes |
| License issued in: | Oklahoma |
| License Nr.: | 4212 |
| License Expiry: | Jun 2013 |
Remote Therapy
| Phone Counseling: | Yes |
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| More Info: | www.melissaborl... |
Please use the contact form on this page to find out more about the provider's remote therapy options
Cost & Payment Modalities
| Avg Cost (session): | $80 - $119 |
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| Accepts Insurance: | Yes |
| Insurances accepted: | Coventry, Aetna, First Health, BlueCross and/or BlueShield |
| Accepts Credit Cards: | Yes |
Please verify costs and payment modalities before you arrange your first visit
Melissa Borlie's Most Recent Activity on Choose Help
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Q & A Reply: Facebook Share on Twitter 10:10 - Mar 16, 2012 Alcohol Self Detox
I know that alcohol withdrawals can be dangerous. I plan to stop drinking soon and I plan to do it at home but I want to be sure I can get to a hospital if I need to. How can I know if my withdrawals start getting dangerous? If things start getting ...
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Q & A Reply: Facebook Share on Twitter 10:10 - Feb 09, 2012 Treatment and Sober Living
Do I need to go through a rehab program before I can get into a sober living house? Most of the places I have talked to are saying that I have to go through treatment first. I don’t think I need rehab again since I have been through it twice ...
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Q & A Reply: Facebook Share on Twitter 10:26 - Feb 07, 2012 Sex in Sobriety
My wife of 10 years was a very heavy drinker who eventually decided to get some help for her drinking about 6 months ago after it became clear that she was flirting with alcoholism if she maybe hadn’t already passed that line. I had been ...
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Q & A Reply: Facebook Share on Twitter 01:25 - Feb 03, 2012 Drinking without Hangovers
My brother is a functional alcoholic. He drinks every night and gets up to go to work 5 days a week. He is visiting right now and last night we shared a case of beers. This is not something I do very often but it is something he does every day. ...
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Q & A Reply: Facebook Share on Twitter 10:06 - Jan 20, 2012 AA Meetings: Do I have to talk?
I think I want to try going to an AA meeting. I am definitely drinking way too much and if I look at myself honestly then I have to admit that I am an alcoholic. I am very shy. I don’t know if there is a word or condition that describes how I am but ...
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Q & A Reply: Facebook Share on Twitter 12:22 - Dec 21, 2011 Cured of Alcoholism
My husband quit drinking 3 months ago and he is doing great. He had to go to a 2 month outpatient treatment program after his second DUI and he was going to AA but he stopped a couple of weeks ago and says he is doing fine on his own and that he ...
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Q & A Reply: Facebook Share on Twitter 12:05 - Dec 21, 2011 Holiday Relapse
I was 6 months sober but relapsed last night after running into some old friends and hitting a bar with them. They did not know I had quit drinking and I just lost my resolve for a moment and before I knew it I had 6 pints in me and the night was ...
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Q & A Reply: Facebook Share on Twitter 07:58 - Nov 30, 2011 Limits on Alcohol Consumption
I have a question about recommended drinking allowances. As far as I understand it, moderate and safe drinking for men is no more than 2 drinks per day. But is this the case for men of all sizes? I am 6 foot 8 and about 300 pounds and there is a ...
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Q & A Reply: Facebook Share on Twitter 02:37 - Nov 26, 2011 Holiday Parties with Alcohol
I am invited to my boss’s house for a Christmas party next weekend, as I have been for the last couple of years. All the other guys from the shop will be there also. I quit drinking a couple of months ago after I realized that it was really getting ...
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Q & A Reply: Facebook Share on Twitter 01:10 - Nov 14, 2011 Return to Normal in Recovery
I was an OxContin user for a couple of months an abuser and addict for like 2 years and I used Suboxone for like 6 months and I am now 3 months opiate free (Whoo hoo!). I feel like I keep waiting for things to normalize and for me to feel like my ...

