Once Bitten, Twice Careful!
The dog has been put down and my neighbor is very distraught. I believe it was an accident and so I am not looking to pursue anything against her.
My son has been having nightmares and seems very upset and scared still about what has happened. He will not go to sleep in his own bed and he is just not his usual happy go lucky self. His best friend has a golden retriever who is the sweetest dog you’d ever meet but my son does not want to go over to his friend’s house to play anymore.
I am worried that this might have lasting psychological implications. Does he need to get some therapy as a preemptive against problems or should I just keep my eye on him to see if he continues to have problems. What should I be looking for as warning signs that he is struggling emotional and mentally from the attack?
Nan Karl Says...
I am so sorry to hear that your son went through this trauma. How terrible for all of you, including your neighbor.
You are already seeing the warning signs that your son is struggling emotionally. He won't sleep in his own bed, his mood has changed, and he won't go near his friend's because the golden retriever is a trigger for him for his trauma.
Yes, your instincts are right. Please get your son to a therapist dealing with child trauma as fast as you can. Intervention now can save him a lot of emotional upset in the future. He needs to be able to talk about this incident in a safe setting so he can process it.
Good luck to you all during this difficult time.
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